Guidance

Many things have been happening in my world since the last post. Majority are about speaking my mind and not holding back or folding.

Yet, I feel this ick sense of guilt for doing so. I am so used to just doing what people want and then moving on. Question though, if you do that then years later they bring it up that they "didn't mean what they wanted" do you change all thougths and fold or stick to it?

My co-worker and I are discussing how things feel right while you do/say them and then you can think of it later and wonder was I really right?!

For so many years I never thought twice of doing something. I simply did things, bought things because I felt they were awesome. Getting married you can't do that. You have to talk and consider how those choices will effect the family.

This post is all jumbled because I can't wrap my brain around what to do. I am torn.